It's like having two sets of parents.

This is with regards to well, dating someone. Unless of course that person has parents that really don't care what their kid does, but generally the guys I date do not have those kinds of parents. Good and bad, mostly good of course. First of all, the relationship is long distance. Second of all, we are both going on missions and so they want him to focus on his mission and they are worried he is too focused on me so don't want him to come and visit because they feel it is only attaching him more and blurring him more from the focused point they want him to be in. It'sssssssss really annoying, not that they want him to be focused, but just having like two sets of parents. One set punishes me, they are punishing him too, then the other set punishes him and it's punishing me as well. My frustration is more than I can say. The parents haven't met me, and I feel extremely judged. I supposed I will write more about this later one when I can actually gather my thoughts. Also along the two sets of parents thing is that parents don't like to budge because they have been independent for so long....so two sets of parents really don't want to budge and it makes it almost impossible to simply schedule one trip. -_- So the main point for today is that having two sets of parents, can be really quite frustrating.